The suspicion that something is wrong physically or mentally
can manifest itself in a variety of ways. Perhaps it’s feeling an unexplained
ache or pain, or finding a lump under the skin, or sudden bouts of crying. For
Chris Chaney, it happened while he was driving.
Chris Chaney, several years before symptoms began |
In Chris’s memory, he told his wife, Janet, about it, and
they went to the doctor, then a specialist.
For Janet, the suspicion that something was wrong was more
subtle, and came about gradually. She said that about five years ago, she
started noticing little things. “We would watch the same television show, and
it was like we had each seen a different show,” Janet said. She also noticed
lapses in Chris’s memory.
There is no way to qualify when Chris felt the black curtain
cover his mind and his vision, or why in his memory he told Janet about it and
then went to the doctor. The only certainty is that this is how Chris perceives
the beginning of knowing something was wrong. But what actually prompted a
visit to the doctor, Janet said, is when Chris, who was always great with
directions, couldn’t remember how to get to Janet’s sister’s house. That’s when
Janet knew something was indeed wrong and that Chris needed to be checked out.
That first doctor visit led to visits with specialists,
which led to series of testing. Finally, two years after Janet first noticed
Chris’s memory problems, he and Janet received the diagnosis: Early stage
Alzheimer’s. Chris was 61.
“I was
flabbergasted,” Chris said. “I had no idea this was happening. I was scared.”
Janet was scared too, but not necessarily surprised, because, as she said, by
that time they were both sure that something was wrong.
Available information about Alzheimer’s isn’t cheerful to
read. There is a seven-stage framework that generalizes what to expect,
starting with a mild cognitive decline and ending with severe decline that
causes abnormal reflexes, rigid muscles, impaired swallowing, and eventually
death. On average, people with
Alzheimer's disease live eight to 10 years following diagnosis, though some
survive as long as 25 years.
“I was really
mad,” Chris said about the prognosis. “I thought I had some good years left in
me.”
Chris spent some
time living with that anger, trying to process what was going to happen to him,
how it would change daily life as he knew it, how it would affect those he
loved. “Then I realized the anger wasn’t going to help,” he said. “I went back
to being a kid, praying every day. Once I got over being mad, all kinds of
people stepped forward to help.”
That help came in
the form of rides, prayers, shared meals together. Chris also joined a group through
the Alzheimer’s Association that meets twice a week and offers not only support
but games and exercises designed to stimulate cognitive function. “We call
ourselves the Crazies,” Chris said. “They’re people like me who can still get
around and do things. We’re all in the same boat.” Chris said the support group
has helped him a lot, especially by just being able to talk to people who are
now his peers in ways they can all relate with.
Though Chris does
still drive, he has found that he becomes disoriented on cloudy or rainy days.
He said he can’t seem to get his bearings at those times. Therefore, in winter
he becomes more reclusive. Soon, he won’t be able to attend the men’s group at
Holy Cross on Thursday mornings unless someone offers to bring him.
Chris Chaney in 1994 |
He tries to keep
himself physically fit, exercising regularly while listening to music. This
man, who worked in a position of management, who earned a doctorate when he was
in his mid-20s, who is a charter member and past council president of Holy
Cross, now takes medication every day, hoping to slow the inevitable
progression of this life-altering and devastating disease. And when he gets
upset and angry, he said, he considers all those who are less fortunate than
him, especially children who have suffered. That helps him put his own life
into perspective.
He credits his
wife, Janet, for being a rock of support. “She has a good backbone,” Chris
said. “She’s tough, always practical.” Janet said she continues to work
full-time, which gives her an outlet, and she tries to keep Chris engaged in
daily activities.
“It’s important
to keep his spirits up,” she said. “With everything else going on, getting
depressed doesn’t help.”
For Chris, there
isn’t much he can do but keep on living each day as it dawns, and staying as
positive as he can. “There’s no cure,” he said. “That’s the one thing that
really bothered me. I know that it will slowly progress.”
There is hope on
the horizon for people who suffer from Alzheimer’s. The 2014 Nobel Prize in
Physiology or Medicine was awarded on October 6 to a trio who discovered cells
in the hippocampus and entorhinal cortex that constitute a positioning system in the brain. These cortexes are
frequently affected in the early stages of Alzheimer’s, causing individuals to
lose their way and be unable to recognize their environment. This type of
research may help lead to better understanding and perhaps even a cure some day
for Alzheimer’s.
What they
discovered might help explain something Janet has noticed with Chris. She said
that, for example, she was trying to point out a weed to Chris, but he couldn’t
see it. She said they had his vision tested, but his eyesight seemed okay, so
it was a mystery why he couldn’t see visible things at times. The explanation
might be that it’s not a vision problem, but rather how he now interprets his
environment, since the mapping position in his brain has gone awry.
Chris and Janet Chaney today |
Chris and Janet have two grown sons and a
daughter, and three grandchildren. Family helps keep them grounded. They are
also appreciative of how much friendship helps, such as people offering to have
dinner with them, or coming over to spend a few hours with Chris at home, or
offering to give him rides. Living in the moment is the best medicine for them,
rather than focusing on the future. Chris and Janet decided to share their story because it might help someone else in some way, perhaps provide some insight or some hope.
“I don’t know
why,” Chris said, “but I still feel God’s presence.” That is apparent within
moments of meeting Chris, the wit and sparkle that comes from a presence deep
within. God is surely with this family.
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