Marshall is one of those people with a larger-than-life
personality. A born storyteller, healthy and robust, gregarious. Career-wise,
finding the right fit in established companies proved a little difficult so he
became a self-employed insurance agent. He married Linda, his childhood pen pal
– their mothers were friends and thought it would be nice if the two kids
corresponded – 35 years ago, and they raised two daughters.
Fast forward to November 27, 2009. Marshall was continuing
the yearly tradition of decorating the house with Christmas lights. It was the
day after Thanksgiving, a balmy 70 degrees. “Linda offered to watch for me, but
I said no,” Marshall said, “so she went inside to take a nap.” Though even had
she been watching, the outcome likely would have been no different. Marshall
climbed up the six-foot step ladder and onto the roof.
He strung the lights as always, across the front and up the
sides of the gables, about a three-hour job. “Then I stepped back to admire my
work,” Marshall said. That step turned into a skid from one part of the roof to
the next, then another eight-foot drop to the ground. “I probably would have
been okay if I had landed on my feet,” Marshall said, “but I landed on my
butt.” He briefly lost consciousness, and when he realized he was on the
ground, he attempted to move. “I started to get up, but I couldn’t move my
legs,” he said.
He had fallen right outside the master bedroom window, so he
thought he would call for Linda to help him. “I tried to take a breath, but I
couldn’t,” Marshall said. With effort, he managed to take a series of about 12
quick puffs to build up enough capacity to yell for Linda. He was able to say
her name before he lost consciousness again. Thankfully she heard him, came
outside to see what he wanted, then called 911.
At the hospital, the news Marshall received wasn’t good. “My
T12 vertebrae had exploded,” he said. “I had five shattered ribs, and the
pieces of ribs had punctured both lungs.” Marshall credits the doctor, Doc Holiday
he said his name was, with fusing several of the larger pieces so he would have
that vertebrae again someday. He remained at the hospital for several weeks,
heavily sedated, in part to keep him from pulling out any tubes or cause even
more physical damage. He also dreamed. “In my dreams I could walk,” Marshall
said, “and I could take care of people.” Because he was experiencing atrial
fibrillation, irregular heartbeats, his heart was electronically started and
stopped twice to alter its electrical system. Once that was under control,
Marshall began to regain more consciousness.
On December 27 of that year, he was moved to another
hospital that had a rehab program. The formerly fit man now had to deal with
atrophied muscles, and limited to no movement in his arms, legs and hips. After
30 days there, he was released, and began a new program at the Rehabilitation
Institute of Kansas City. “I was used to being quite strong and doing whatever
I wanted,” Marshall said. “I went from lifting 240 pounds to one and three pounds.”
He participated in a regimen of occupational, physical and speech therapy,
starting three times a week and tapering to twice a week.
This is when he learned how a congregation can step forward
to lend its support. “Norm Smith (a Holy Cross mission partner) organized a
brigade of people,” Marshall said. “There were 12 or 15 from Holy Cross, they
call themselves the Do-Nothings, who gave me rides.” Marshall said he also had
some help from friends in the civic organizations he had been involved in,
namely the Shawnee Kiwanis and the Shawnee Chamber of Commerce. “And then
there’s Linda, let me tell you about Linda,” Marshall said, referring to his
wife and her support when he was first injured. “Linda was there every day. The
heartache she went through. She was terrified I was going to die.”
Since that fateful November day, Marshall has come a long
way. He continues to use a wheelchair, but can pull himself to a standing
position. His arms are strong again. His upper thighs are muscular. His target
date is March, 2018 to have rebuilt his calves and ankles, and be able to flex
his foot. That’s just how long it will take his damaged neural pathways to
heal, one centimeter per month.
Too, he doesn’t need rides to get to the gym like he used to
because now he can drive with hand controls. Here’s the routine: Wheelchair to
the back of the van, pull himself up, fold up the lightweight chair that weighs
26 pounds, grab the walker from the back of the van, use it to get to the
driver’s seat, hoist himself into the van, toss in the walker, and hit the
road. Actually, a huge task that most of us take for granted.
But here’s the thing. Marshall has found a way to be
positive. “I did a lot of praying,” he said. “God, why did you leave me here?
You came so close to bringing me home.” Marshall received his answer. “He (God)
wants me to encourage disabled people,” Marshall said. “I have met so many
worse off than I. I rededicated myself. I still wish I hadn’t fallen off the
roof, but I’ve had so many wonderful things happen, and have been able to help
so many other people.” Therein lies an illustration of one’s man faith and
trust.
Great story about a wonderful couple...so happy I have gotten to meet them!
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